I do think that high performing teams are the hardest to leave because they have learned to know each other, to trust each other and to rely on each other (Abudi, 2010). This leads to stronger relationships and better outcomes and makes it harder to move on because not all teams reach this stage, and once you have experienced, it you want it for all of your team experiences. I also think that teams with the clearest norms are the most successful because the work becomes about the project and isn't focused on individual goals (Abudi). This is also good for the relationships of the team members because there is a sense of collaboration instead of competition, and the team members trust one another.
I had one group that was particularly hard to leave because it encompassed all of the aspects of a great team: leadership, clear norms, high performance from each member of the team, and a deep sense of respect and trust. We worked hard, were enthusiastic about our mission, and had a great time. The larger organization did some revising, and because each member of the team was seen as strong team player, they disbanded the team and sent each one of us to work on another group that wasn't working as well. There were several consequences of this. First, we didn't get a chance to have an adjourning, it was foisted upon us and we were expected to pack up and move to start work at the new location the following Monday. This was so abrupt that several members of the team experienced physical ramifications. Second, although we were great individually, what made us really wonderful was our team. Each member did okay at their new location, but no team was ever as strong as the whole group of us together. Third, we lost trust in the larger organization because they didn't let us say good-bye to each other and wish each other luck as we left for our next adventure (Abudi, 2010) We still talk about it when individual members see each other, even though it's been over ten years ago.
The closing ritual that I enjoy most is getting together one last time, away from work, to socialize, celebrate, and plan a way to keep in touch. I think that whatever else the adjourning stage consists of, it needs to be determined by the members of the group and not an outside party. Often members of high performing early childhood groups end up working together again on other projects, and when groups are allowed to adjourn in their own way, each member of the team can decide how connected he/she wants to stay with the other members. I realize that there are only a few weeks left before I start the coursework for my emphasis; there are some members of my Walden cohort that will go in a different direction and I won't be able to correspond with them again. I imagine that adjourning will need to take place via technology. I think that this it a good time to say farewell and good luck to all of the wonderful people that I have met in this experience, and if you are ever in Utah please look me up!!
Abudi, G. (2010). The five stages of team development: A case study. Retrieved (November 30, 2013) from http://www.projectsmart.co.uk/the-five-stages-of-team-development-a-case-study.html
Hello Carolyn, I enjoy reading your post and it was very informative. I like what you say that "high performing teams are the hardest to leave because they have learned to know each other, to trust each other and to rely on each other ". I believe great relationship start with building trust. Sophia
ReplyDeleteFor me it is also the human connection that is often my motivation to give a team my all. If I feel connected to the group and understand they are counting on me then I feel more inspired. About 8 years ago I heard a woman speak about why people voluntarily join a group. She suggested there are 3 reasons, belief in a cause, how it can help you, and to be part of the party. Often my desire to be part of the party helps to flame my passion for a project. It has been my pleasure to reconnect and work on a team with you again. I hope we will stay in touch.
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Betsy
Wow, it's so unfortunate that you didn't get to adjourn your first group before being placed in all the others. While I can understand upper management moving people into groups that aren't working, they should really take into account your feelings at the same time. It's tough, my husband is in charge of a lot of teams in his company and that happens all the time. They find great groups, and end up splitting them up to go help all the other teams that can't keep up. It's a double edged sword, but I will be sure to share your story with him so he makes sure he does some adjourning time with his groups before he breaks them off in the future. Thank you for sharing your experience, it's great to get that perspective.
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Hi Carolyn. I just wanted to thank you for all your insights and ideas throughout this course, and I hope that we can keep in touch after this and bounce ideas off each other in the future. You can reach me by email at janetcoloma@verizon.net which is my personal email or on my blog at: jeannettecoloma.blogspot.com
ReplyDeleteTake care and Happy Holidays!
Janet
Carolyn,
ReplyDeleteIt goes without saying your support and insight have made my journey richer! We will keep in touch and hopefully work together again soon.
Enjoy the extra time in the next weeks!
Betsy